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Being a Happy Mother

 

Today is Wednesday. I am so happy because I can go jogging. I am not sure when I realized that I really like doing sports, especially walking or jogging. A long time ago, I sometimes did sports. But my life changed when the babies came. I was happy, of course. I enjoyed the time I spent with my children. But somehow, I also forgot a few things I used to like.

Time flies, they have grown well. Now they are teenagers. Like any typical teenager, they have their own life. They became quieter. I know that they aren’t kids who are talkative, but the differences made me confused. Sometimes I feel they don’t need my attendance anymore. At the first time I realized it, I felt upset. I wasn’t ready to “lose” them so soon. I just want to do everything with them like what we did.

But, I know it is ridiculous. I can not be so selfish and ignore the fact that they also need more space to be someone stronger and better. So, I decided to accept the reality and move on. What I do then?

Of course, I don’t want to feel lonely, so I do something that can make sparks in my life. Like I said before, I do sport now. Another thing is I write on my blog which is has been abandoned for so long time. I also try to learn new skills. Fortunately, I have so many things to learn, that make me quite busy. I am baking, sewing, gardening, reading and so on. And I do learn English too. That’s wonderful!

I get so many benefits by doing those activities. I feel happier, healthier and stronger. I wake up in the morning full of spirit. I am very excited for the morning come, so I can engage in those activities.

Now I am a mother whose happiness always come. I don’t have to be afraid just because my baby boys become someone that grow and busy. I will not disturb them. I’ll try to be someone who support them at the first row. I believe that if I want to have strong children, so I have to be strong first. Yes, I still on the way to be better Mom for my kids. Eventhough it’s not easy, but I just have to try. Like what people said, that we just ought to make an effort, the result depends on God. And as a Moslem, I believe that God would never let me down.

By the way, I have a plan to use my blog to practice my English. My English tutor told me that if I want to improve my English skill, I have to practice it more often. Practice makes perfect, right? I hope, you guys enjoy what I am doing in my blog and don’t forget to come and read. Thank you!

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